A relationship, a marriage, both men and women should try to adapt to each other, rather than forcing the other party to make changes according to their own wishes. Too much restraint, men will feel that there is no personal freedom to suffocate. Either it will fall out with you or be forced to change by you. However, in his subconscious mind, he is extremely reluctant. Can such a relationship last? 1. Don’t try to test men often, let alone use breakups as a threat. When you often give him such psychological hints, his subconscious will be ready to break up. 2. Don’t expand your rights without restrictions because men love you. Don’t interfere with his ideals, beliefs, and pursuits. Don’t think that you are farther than men. He must have some qualities that you don’t understand. 3, don’t be late often, don’t think that a man loves you, he should have unlimited patience. One’s patience is limited. If you endure your patience, you should kill love. 4. Don’t believe in the phrase “You love me, you should know what I want”. This is a complete story. No one knows exactly what the other person thinks. Because men don’t know your thoughts in time, it’s very stupid to conclude that men don’t love you. 5, do not often ask a man to accompany you to go shopping, not a few men really like to go shopping, the final outcome of forced is rebellion. 6, men do things for girls when they are in love, do not expect him to continue in the future life, smart girls usually hit 50% off. 7. Don’t because he is the closest person to you, you can tell him everything, your misfortune, pain, grievances and complaints are given to him, make him an outlet, the man is not a waste purchase station, when he confirms that he can’t When you change, he only flees. 8, don’t try to change the man, don’t think that he will become your ideal man under your training, to adapt to his wise than to change him. 9. Don’t be overconfident about your charisma. There aren’t a few men who will endure indefinitely. There aren’t a few men who can rush to go, unless the man loves you. 10. Don’t use this kind of thinking to guide your love – look for evidence that he doesn’t love you in a man’s words and deeds. Men can’t focus on women all the time, and he can’t notice every hint and unhappiness of a woman. When you use a magnifying glass to look for dust, you will always find it. To do so, just guide the man and tell him how to not love you. 11. When a man is thinking, try not to disturb him. He sometimes needs the happiness of being alone. It does not prove that he does not love you. Men and you are close, and don’t just hurt his self-esteem, whether in front of others or alone At the point, injury is hurt, whether or not he loves you. 12. Don’t be jealous of the man’s past feelings, and don’t force the man to tell you that you are better than any of his former girlfriends. The fact is fact. If he says hello in his heart, he will remember another fact. 13. Don’t compare your man with other men. Don’t say that he is not as romantic as others, not as considerate as others. Everyone is special and the way of love is different. It is often said that love will become a psychological burden. 14. Always keep a little mystery in front of men. Don’t expose 100% of everything to men. If you eat too much, you will hate food, but you won’t be grateful. 15. Don’t expect to use sex to get a man. This is the most unreliable way to capture a man, because love has nothing to do with the flesh. Love is a magnetic field, not a rope, tied to him, it is better to attract him. A rope will give men a desire to break free, while a magnetic field can give men a free falsehood and an eternal temptation. 16. Don’t expect a man to fall in love with you unconditionally and like a slave (such a man is not worthy of love). You have to be a supreme queen in love, and eventually you will find that you will fall very badly. 17. Please measure, if your love is that you enjoy more rights, and the other party has to fulfill more obligations, then you must try to change, love is also suitable for the law of economics, and form a win-win situation. Will last. You can’t easily change others, but you can change yourself. Women in marriage, especially pay attention to this, slowly change themselves like a butterfly effect, day by day, year after year. No one is perfect, no one is perfect, try to accommodate the defects of the other half, and understand how to embrace love. Such as attracting him. A rope will give men a desire to break free, while a magnetic field can give men a free falsehood and an eternal temptation. 16. Don’t expect a man to fall in love with you unconditionally and like a slave (such a man is not worthy of love). You have to be a supreme queen in love, and eventually you will find that you will fall very badly. 17. Please measure, if your love is that you enjoy more rights, and the other party has to fulfill more obligations, then you must try to change, love is also suitable for the law of economics, and form a win-win situation. Will last. You can’t easily change others, but you can change yourself. Women in marriage, especially pay attention to this, slowly change themselves like a butterfly effect, day by day, year after year. No one is perfect, no one is perfect, try to accommodate the defects of the other half, and understand how to embrace love. Such as attracting him. A rope will give men a desire to break free, while a magnetic field can give men a free falsehood and an eternal temptation. 16. Don’t expect a man to fall in love with you unconditionally and like a slave (such a man is not worthy of love). You have to be a supreme queen in love, and eventually you will find that you will fall very badly. 17. Please measure, if your love is that you enjoy more rights, and the other party has to fulfill more obligations, then you must try to change, love is also suitable for the law of economics, and form a win-win situation. Will last. You can’t easily change others, but you can change yourself. Women in marriage, especially pay attention to this, slowly change themselves like a butterfly effect, day by day, year after year. No one is perfect, no one is perfect, try to accommodate the defects of the other half, and understand how to embrace love.