Those things that men are most worried about in their husband’s life

Being a man also has his own fears. It is not that only women can have a vulnerable side. Men also have it, and the fragile side of men is caused by the factors of the wife. It is the males who appear in the “sexual” life, so how is the male vulnerable side in the husband and wife life? 1. Male vulnerability: I don’t know if my wife needs more caress and stimulation when she has a husband. Said to the doctor: “When we have sex, my wife usually strokes the vulva with her own hands; sometimes, I also caress her with my hands, but she pushes my hand away, does she prefer her rather than me to caress her? In terms of the difficulty of getting orgasm for women, the self-stimulation of women is naturally more likely to obtain physiological sexual satisfaction than the touch of the husband, but making love is a matter of mutual interest, mutual caress, mutual stimulation, and mutual accomplishment. The whole process of sexual life is far more perfect than doing it alone. Therefore, a wise wife should give more guidance to her husband. 2, male vulnerability: fear of not strong men’s erectile function love to many factors: the pressure of work, the burden of life, the loss of marital relationship, etc., will make the penis erection is not good, or even without these factors Men over the age of 30 will occasionally experience poor erections. Many men will doubt their sexual function, and some will blindly take a variety of aphrodisiac and kidney-reinforcing drugs to save their “declining” sexual function. In fact, compared with the male sexual desire period of 18-25 years old, men who have passed the age of the year will feel less sexual impulses, but the ability to control is enhanced. Therefore, the attitude of the wife is the most important at this time; If the wife says her husband with suspicion, blame or sneer, it will only make the problem worse. The best way is to choose a husband’s mood better, or to caress his sexual organs in the morning when the erection is good, or let him vaginal stimulation, so that the husband will no longer worry about erectile function. 3, male fragile: afraid of the wife to measure the size of his own sex organs, the same as women’s fear of their breast size is the same, unmarried men, because there is no sexual experience, it is not surprising to worry about the size of their penis, but Married men worry that their penis is too large or too small. In particular, some newlywed husbands and husbands who are still unable to satisfy their wives when they are married for a long time often fear that their wives will care about the size of the penis during sexual intercourse. In fact, the deviation of the length of the male penis is like that of a person who is tall and short, but truly morbid. There are very few giant diseases and dwarfism. Similarly, pathological penis is too long or too short to be extremely rare. It is generally believed that after penile erection, between 7.8 cm and 20 cm, it is normal, relatively short and long penis. In sexual life, as long as you pay attention to sexual intercourse, it does not impair the sexual harmony between the two sides. Therefore, when a husband and wife live in a sexual life, when the sensitive wife perceives that the husband is worried about the size of his sexual organs, the correct way is to tell him that this does not have much impact on your sexual life. As long as the husband is fully engaged, you will Will feel good. This can greatly enhance the confidence of the husband. 4, male vulnerability: fear of wife camouflage orgasm in the husband and wife life, the couple’s sexual reaction, sexual information can be mutually inductive, mutual stimulation, one party’s response to sexual pleasure will make the other party feel great satisfaction. As for the husband, if the wife gets an orgasm while making love, it can make him more sexually stimulated, and he will have a sense of pride and accomplishment. However, if you know that the other party’s orgasm is just a disguise, it will greatly damage his self-esteem and affect his sexual interests. Perhaps some women think that since their sexual reaction is so important to their husbands, then, in their own When you don’t want to put in sex, or when you are not feeling well, it is not a bad idea to comfort your husband. This is just like some research? 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Some sexual science books often have such a sentence: women have the potential to reach orgasm several times in succession. But this is a kind of “potential” rather than “inevitable.” There are often some husbands complaining: “I really want my wife to reach orgasm several times in a row, but often it is counterproductive. Sometimes the two are still unhappy.” In fact, the reaction of women after a one-time climax is different. Most women need to continue to be warm and caressed, and the sexual excitement will slowly decline. This is a “post-play” process; some women can get sexual gratification again if they give corresponding and appropriate stimulation after a one-time climax, but generally The level of excitement is lower than once; In addition, some women enter a hypersensitive state after a one-time climax, sensitive parts of the body including the skin, only need to embrace each other, whisper, refuse any stimulation, then feel like giving caress, stimulation Uncomfortable and uncomfortable. Therefore, don’t be tempted by the theory that women can reach multiple orgasms in succession. Both husband and wife can share happiness and intimacy in sex, and a one-off climax is enough. 6. Male vulnerability: I am afraid that my time is not long enough. There is no standard for the length of sex. Men tend to think that the longer the time, the better. They think that the longer the time, the stronger their sexual function and the higher the sexual skill. At the same time, the time is longer. The longer he is, the more satisfied his wife is. Therefore, men often boast about how long their sexual intercourse has been when they compare their sexual abilities. In fact, there are two misunderstandings that need to be corrected: First, there is a difference between sex time and sex time. The time of making love refers to the aftermath of the sexual life between the two sides, and the end of sexual intercourse. This whole process is the time of making love, which can last for dozens of minutes or even longer. Some couples go home in the morning and go home early in the evening. The meaning of the agreement is “tonight we have sex life”, then, in a broad sense, sex time should start in the morning. The time of sexual intercourse refers to the insertion of a male’s penis into the vagina until the completion of ejaculation. This time is not as long as the average person brags. American sex researchers have found that the average American couple’s sexual intercourse is between 5-9 minutes. Are there men who can last for tens of minutes or even more than an hour? Maybe there are, but they can be said to be rare. Second, even if men can last more than an hour during sexual intercourse, is it really necessary to have such a long time? Male ejaculation is too fast, it is “premature ejaculation”, some men who worry about “premature ejaculation” have some, but worry about “late venting”. The person does not seem to have, but if the male penis twitches in the vagina for more than half an hour and does not intentionally control it, no ejaculation occurs. If this situation persists, not only can it be diagnosed as “late venting”, but there is even a suspicion of not ejaculation. Moreover, women’s sexual gratification is not directly proportional to the length of male sexual intercourse. Therefore, men should not be superstitious about the longer sex, the better, if you feel that you can not continue to your wife’s satisfaction, then increase the time before and after the play, or add some new ingredients in sex, try new ways, sex is the same Will make your wife happy. Going home early in the evening, the meaning of the agreement is “tonight we have sex,” then, in a broad sense, sex time should start in the morning. The time of sexual intercourse refers to the insertion of a male’s penis into the vagina until the completion of ejaculation. This time is not as long as the average person brags. American sex researchers have found that the average American couple’s sexual intercourse is between 5-9 minutes. Are there men who can last for tens of minutes or even more than an hour? Maybe there are, but they can be said to be rare. Second, even if men can last more than an hour during sexual intercourse, is it really necessary to have such a long time? Male ejaculation is too fast, it is “premature ejaculation”, some men who worry about “premature ejaculation” have some, but worry about “late venting”. The person does not seem to have, but if the male penis twitches in the vagina for more than half an hour and does not intentionally control it, no ejaculation occurs. If this situation persists, not only can it be diagnosed as “late venting”, but there is even a suspicion of not ejaculation. Moreover, women’s sexual gratification is not directly proportional to the length of male sexual intercourse. Therefore, men should not be superstitious about the longer sex, the better, if you feel that you can not continue to your wife’s satisfaction, then increase the time before and after the play, or add some new ingredients in sex, try new ways, sex is the same Will make your wife happy. Going home early in the evening, the meaning of the agreement is “tonight we have sex,” then, in a broad sense, sex time should start in the morning. The time of sexual intercourse refers to the insertion of a male’s penis into the vagina until the completion of ejaculation. This time is not as long as the average person brags. American sex researchers have found that the average American couple’s sexual intercourse is between 5-9 minutes. Are there men who can last for tens of minutes or even more than an hour? Maybe there are, but they can be said to be rare. Second, even if men can last more than an hour during sexual intercourse, is it really necessary to have such a long time? Male ejaculation is too fast, it is “premature ejaculation”, some men who worry about “premature ejaculation” have some, but worry about “late venting”. The person does not seem to have, but if the male penis twitches in the vagina for more than half an hour and does not intentionally control it, no ejaculation occurs. If this situation persists, not only can it be diagnosed as “late venting”, but there is even a suspicion of not ejaculation. Moreover, women’s sexual gratification is not directly proportional to the length of male sexual intercourse. Therefore, men should not be superstitious about the longer sex, the better, if you feel that you can not continue to your wife’s satisfaction, then increase the time before and after the play, or add some new ingredients in sex, try new ways, sex is the same Will make your wife happy.