Our common ideals for married life are family happiness and jealousy, and husband and wife love, but the fact is that there are not so many happy families whose wives and children are hot-headed. When two people are together for a long time, there will inevitably be many stumbling blocks affecting the love of husband and wife. Once you don’t face these stumbling blocks, it will inevitably lead to disharmony in family life. Love and family will have happiness, and love and family need to be created by both husband and wife. After the marriage of men and women is bound, both husband and wife will have a concept that “my lover is mine”. The influence of this concept on the husband and wife is that the normal exchange between the spouse and the opposite sex will create the suppression and embarrassment of the other party. This will give the lover a feeling of being restrained. This sense of restraint is precisely the common psychology that people hate most. It can be accepted once or twice. It will take a long time, which will naturally lead to contradictions between the husband and wife. The intensification of contradictions can only make the relationship between husband and wife worse. People in the minds always have the psychological standards of “I like, I like, I hate, and I can’t do it.” This kind of psychology also has an impact on the relationship between husband and wife. Things are gathered together, people are divided into groups. If the husband and wife have the same outlook on life, world outlook, values, and love, they can promote the harmony of husband and wife. On the contrary, only the relationship between husband and wife can develop in the opposite direction. Couple life will surely cast a dark veil. Sex life has had such research: how many times a person wants sex in a day? The results show that 54% of adult men and 19% of adult women say they want to have at least one day. In fact, each person’s potential sexual pleasure makes the stimulation of sexual behavior far exceed the reproductive needs. In fact, the root cause of sexual reactions is psychological rather than physiological. For example: Some people worry that they can’t give their wife’s surname to the climax and are accused by their wife of sexual dysfunction, or that drinking, ill, excessive fatigue, drugs and other factors lead to low quality of sexual life. If the couple’s sexual life is not harmonious, they will not be satisfied because of the sexual life can not meet the ranks of broken marriage. (Text / Shun) Copyright: The copyright of this article belongs to Feihua Health Net. Any natural person or legal person may not reprint or copy all or part of it in any form without permission.