Couples talk not to be “nothing to worry about”

Cheerful Ya Ting, always in my heart can not hide words, usually meet something, will take home and tell her husband. If you are happy, you can share it with your husband. There are also things that don’t go well. I want to get help and guidance from my husband. This was originally a manifestation of mutual support and mutual trust between husband and wife, but one thing that happened later completely damaged her husband’s heart. Ya Ting’s mother-in-law is a person who is used to saving money. She always likes to accumulate the beverage bottles that have been consumed at home, and then sell it to the waste recycling station to some extent. Sometimes she will pick up some empty bottles from the outside and make the balcony messy. of. Ya Ting expressed dissatisfaction with her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law still enjoyed it. Ya Ting had to vent her dissatisfaction with her mother-in-law on her husband. She grew up in a single-parent family and was very considerate of her mother’s frugality. She relied on her mother to grow up a little bit. Husband and Yate said that she can listen to her, but this time she must accommodate her mother. Ya Ting did not care, and talked with her husband a few words to count down, and turned over the old accounts before marriage, and affirmed that the house that she lives now is bought by her parents, she can let her husband and mother-in-law move at any time. go. After listening to Ya Ting’s countless voices, her husband moved out of the house three days later. Secondly, don’t talk too much about stimulating the other person’s words. Even if the other party is at fault, don’t take care of it. The biggest taboo in conversation is to touch the other’s pain, because everyone has their own weaknesses and dignity, to understand and respect each other, love can last. In the case of Yating, I made this taboo. Finally, don’t talk about unfounded words. Some people who see their lover and other opposite sex will have a big jealousy, and even if they don’t clear the situation, they will arbitrarily deduct the “derailed” hat. If these are unfounded, they will make the other person feel embarrassed and atmosphere and deepen their misunderstanding. (Text/July) Copyright statement: The copyright of this article belongs to Feihua Health Net. Any natural person or legal person may not reprint or copy all or part of it in any form without permission.