The psychoanalytic school emphasizes subconscious psychological conflicts, and they believe that some of the orgasms lack a traumatic experience rooted in childhood. For example, a girl who grows up in a broken family. If she is deeply impressed by her father’s cruelty and her mother’s bitterness and grief, she will form fear and distrust of men. After she gets married, even if she loves her husband, she is subconsciously The fear and distrust still prevent her from reaching orgasm. Coordinating the relationship between husband and wife Because the couple does not have feelings or the husband and wife are not in harmony, there will be no fun in sex life. The wife is not a vassal of the husband. Only by caring and caring for her wife can she gradually forget the unfortunate past and never express her dissatisfaction in her words. I can often walk, travel, and watch movies with her. More work in housework, more encouragement in the spirit, and continue to provide her with psychological comfort. When disagreements arise in life, we should adopt an attitude of seeking common ground and small differences and tolerance, so that the contradictions can be alleviated and resolved. Acupressure massage patients supine, the surgeon with the palm of his hand, counterclockwise to abdomen, 30 times each. Click on the gas sea, Guanyuan, Zusanli and Sanyinjiao points for 1 minute each. In the prone position, the surgeon refers to the Shenshu, Xinshu, Ganshu, and Mingmen points for 1 minute each. 5~10 minutes below the Jingmen hole on the left or right side of the palm. Then supine, the operator with two hands and four fingers from the inside of the patient’s upper and lower, five-star points, kneading from top to bottom, through the Yin package to the knee under the Yinlingquan point, repeated 3 to 5 times. Active communication to relieve chilling For a wife who is psychologically traumatic or mentally concerned, the husband should patiently guide his wife to help them eliminate their concerns. If the lack of female sexual knowledge leads to stress and disharmony, both husband and wife should actively communicate, learn sexual knowledge, understand each other’s sexual psychology and sexual needs, actively explore and try, and learn to appreciate and praise each other under the premise of mutual agreement. Sexual life should be meticulous, patient and gentle, and the foreplay is more complete, promoting sexual harmony. Do you know why women are cold? Drug experts say that oral contraceptives, antihypertensives, anxiolytics, antacids and antidepressants can affect female sexual desire. It is recommended to ask about the side effects of the drug and take non-hormonal contraceptive measures. The busy life of a family outside the home and several jobs, as well as modern life pressures can lead to changes in female hormone levels, disruptive reaction cycle, affecting sexual desire. Experts suggest that a reasonable arrangement of life, taking a hot bath, etc. can help relieve stress, relax body and mind, and improve the sex life of couples. Body shape is fat or pregnant, resulting in a change in body shape, which will cause psychological stress to women, which in turn affects sexual interest. Experts suggest that active exercise to lose weight, help to enhance their own sexy recognition and increase sexual desire. To the menopause Before the estrogen level decreased, sexual life was affected. At this time, the vaginal tissue is more lubricated, and the dryness causes pain, which in turn makes women afraid of sex. It is recommended to discuss the pros and cons of hormone replacement therapy with your doctor. If the vagina is dry, use an estrogen cream or suppository, or a lubricant. Sexually faded experts said that the lack of sex of the husband can also lead to the wife’s sexual desire disorder. It is recommended that husband and wife communicate to discuss countermeasures and avoid blaming or suspicion. For men, “sexual negation” is equal to “all negation.” Experts with depression say that depression can lead to a sudden drop in sex. Some antidepressants help to improve sex, but some drugs can make it difficult to reach orgasm. It is recommended to consider psychotherapy and receive expert guidance to improve physical and mental health and promote genital blood flow.